How to Scam-Proof Your Parents (Without Offending Them)

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TEC332: Billions of dollars are stolen from seniors each year—so why do so many smart, capable people still fall victim? This episode tackles one of today’s most urgent technology threats: online scams targeting older adults.

Dom Bettinelli is joined by Tom Grelinger and Pat Scott to break down how these schemes work, why they’re escalating, and what families can do immediately to reduce risk.

Scams don’t succeed because people are foolish—they succeed because they’re engineered to bypass judgment. From romance fraud and “grandparent in trouble” calls to fake tech support alerts, toll road texts, and cryptocurrency investment traps, the panel exposes the emotional triggers scammers exploit: urgency, fear, authority, and compassion. AI-powered deepfake voices and video impersonations are now raising the stakes even further.

If a caller pressures you to act immediately, that’s your cue to stop. The conversation highlights real-world cases: retirement savings drained, fake invoices triggering panic, and even one-time password scams that nearly caught experienced tech users off guard. The hosts emphasize that these crimes are industrial-scale operations—sometimes run from overseas scam centers—and that anyone can be targeted.

Why are seniors particularly vulnerable? The discussion explores cognitive changes, isolation, outdated devices, and generational trust patterns. But the solution isn’t shaming—it’s support. The strongest defense isn’t software—it’s a trusted person you can call.

Practical strategies include:

  • The “Stop, Verify, Ask” habit
  • Creating a family secret passphrase
  • Freezing credit reports
  • Monitoring financial accounts
  • Using two-factor authentication
  • Updating devices regularly
  • Encouraging open, shame-free conversations

The episode closes with a reminder: scammers depend on isolation. Community, vigilance, and compassion are powerful countermeasures. If you care about protecting parents, grandparents, or even yourself in the years ahead, this conversation is essential.

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